i had a chat with him.Then we started talking on phone. one day he said he loves me n i accepted his proposal. we have chated on webcam he sends me gifts. i too send him gifts. he has an elder sis who is married n know every thing about us n has accepted is . i m a sikh n he is brahman. he lives in patiala.we dint meet for 1 year after our affair but in my holidays in march I went to punjab n we met…… i m a student of 12th n he is n engeneering student………..will this relation last long……. n is he true to me…..
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well ppl should be careful while chatting on net. I mean you never know how the person is. I am not scaring you but I have come across many cases where girls have been abondoned and some have also got pregnant. I am not saying that it can happen to you but you should still be careful. Just introspect and analyze where this thing is going? Is it safe? Will my parents be happy with whatever I am doing? After all your life is a part of others’.
everything might be possible in this modern and ever shrinking world. anyway, just make sure that he is ready to be yours and vice versa. since you are still a student, and he is a student also, there is a long for both of you to go and things (including feeling) could change.
Don’t expected too much for this time, just live take you there, you can’t hurry love. review for any aspect of differences like you are sikh and he is a brahman, you leave at here and he is there, you are still young and so does he.
did your parents know about this? how is his parents’s view about this? Married older sister is not a representative of his parents or yours.
also ask to yourself, be true to you, is it the first love? are you affected by the romans that you read and watched?
there is a lot of self questioning that you need to do for further step to the future of both of you.